1. Situational disorganization: this is a result of a precipitating life event that causes disruption and disorganization in your life. some times, sudden things happen to us like sicknesses, the loss of a dear one etc. that invite disorder because at that time, we are not ourselves. Knowing the situation that caused your disorganization is helpful in taking the pressure off you. This level of disorganization is easy to deal with.2.Habitual disorganization. Habitual disorganization results from bad habits that have developed over time. we all indulge in them time to time. After having a stressful day, instead of folding our cloths, we just throw them on the couch. Habitual disorganization does not mean that we are forever stuck with disorder in our life. Rather, it means that we have created our own state of disorganization with our collection of bad habits. We can also remain in our disorder or get over it. Procrastination makes us victims of disorganization. when we keep telling ourselves I will do it, by our own hand, we put our selves into slavery.
3.Historical disorganization. This results from our upbringing. Some people had the privilege of growing up in order while others did not and this has affected our lives. The good news is, we can rebel against the disorganization we grew up with, and resolve to train ourselves for orderly living. This training requires constant efforts and determination to be orderly, when we continue, it soon becomes a good habit.4. Association disorganization. Have you ever noticed that you gradually become disorganized when you live with or share space with a disorganized individual? I call this association disorganization. Sometimes even though we try to maintain order, when the individual stubbornly remains disorganized, we tend to give up because we get tired of cleaning and cleaning or fixing and fixing. In such a situation, you have to constantly keep yourself checked and if possible, talk to the other person.
5. Chronic Disorganization. This happens when you have a past history of disorganization in which self-help efforts to change have failed. Chronically disorganized people require more specialized service than those who came by their disorganization by way of situation, habits, family history or association influence. It is unlikely that a chronically disorganized person can independently pull themselves out of their circumstances alone therefore, external help is needed. External help could come from a psychologist or any authorized individual.
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